Now, place me in a room full of gays and I lock up like a transmission without fluid. And he has no idea where to find any. I've thought about this extensively. And you know what he said to me? Renone Thanks.
Hobbies and other special interests. Do you want someone to show off? Someone uncomplicated, who won't try to date with you, or compete with you for dates? Im 66,and you could be writing about me…. Gay men at all ages seem to be obsessed with looks and sex and do not seem to understand the concept of friendship.
I understand where he is coming from, I certainly experience the same things.
There are gay sports leagues, gay hiking groups and even gay video-game groups! Be calm and don't freak out. Most of my other close acquaintances are women and straight men. I didn't like the fact that I had to intoxicate myself in order to enter an environment with people of my own kind.
I live right outside of NYC.
Make your choice. My advice to all you who are friends of guys or girls who have same-sex attraction is to simply love them. I know that is what I was afraid of when I first told my guy friends about my attractions. Co-Authored By:. Use whatever resources you have available.